Have you ever wondered what common question always tormented men???
For which decade we are talking about??? For all OF COURSE! From the decade that Titanic sank (see Di Caprio standing on the stern looking at the sky in wonder ...) until that Kaka forces public bank in Spain to give the loan to Real for his own satisfaction! Temporarily of course! There are questions that were, are and will remain unchanged over time. And men around the world could not be the exception....
But what is the common question that remained unchanged over the years???
It has to do with what??? Two are the options. One is the ball and the other is...women!
(What????? Car??????? Car in 1907????) So let us leave, for the moment, the first option and let us go to the second.... ''If I send shots to her table how will she react??? ''''To call her or I will make her feel that I do this all the time with other women too???; ''I have a free house tonight. Should I invite her or will she misunderstand?''.. It's only a few from the dozens of questions from time to time we all wondered whether and when to ask them.What they have in common???
What else ?????????????
Everything that women want ...
Everything they have in their mind..
Everything we would like to know.....In a strange way everything women want is inextricably linked with men. Whether it seems irrelevant or not everything starts and ends there. Gentlemen there is no ''everything women want''... There is just ''all that women want ... from men!!!!!!!!''
Do you remember "Nick Marshall''??? It was the name of the role played by Mel Gibson in the film'' What women want.''
Our hero!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It was the first time that I thought to throw a dryer into the bathtub! To be shaken for some seconds, even for a moment to lose my senses, but when I would wake up..
To be in ... in their minds!! To hear their thoughts!!! Everything they want .. Everything they think! And well! You will say. All these women want is always the same??? So in all phases of their life have the same requirements??? The same expectations???Of course not! Naturally! The woman is a chameleon ... She changes according to prevailing conditions and the time of course. The periods of ''I want' 'are basically three! ''Before the relationship", ''during the relationship'' and that of ''marriage.''Each of these has its own characteristics. Its own particular ''expect'' from her husband ... her own ''I want''. Some do actually exist, most of them for accuracy, but some of them do not exist at all but they wait for them, just because their role dictates that! The first period is more tricky. Here it is when the first "I want" begin.
What they want???????????
First of all, to bite their interest!!!A Chinese proverb that you suddenly remembered (meaning that you have memorized 3-4 for each potential case and say the most relevant), a reference to a book you have recently read (never mind if you have not read it. Just having heard the author ...) or even simpler a report to a social problem of the time by showing your opinion (very basic) is enough initially to bite her interest and make her say later to her best friend the famous phrase ''OK I was not gone mad with him, but this man does you a click ''That is just what they want in the beginning". This click. This preoccupation with their minds. If you satisfy that they are ready for the next step ... Target flirt ...It is necessary and should be offered systematically... The generalities of the type ''nice dress!!!'', "Ah! This color in your hair suits you" and all this shit does not touch the heart of a sixty year old woman, 1.50 tall, 112 kilos, divorced with 3 children who had a date with someone she met, before 2 hours, in a chat room! Women want targeting. They want to know that the person they have fallen for, worth it. They want to know that they have something that all others do not. Something we (MEN) do not find every day ... And of course, to be true they must listen to it regularly... To become a routine ... The reminder of it is just a proof of its real existence!Gentleman with courage and not impoliteness when they are on a date. If they realize that the guy they have opposite them is sly like a fox, and takes the right (without being given to) to just spell or murmur the word sex (for whatever reason, even if it is irrelevant.) it is sure that he becomes obsolete (in other words "past", "finished") in a second . The women want ''a gentleman'' for them, a good listener, not to interrupt and have the guts to leave a hint at the right time!!Sex time... Or not??? It is a critical time guys!!!!! It is high time and everything starts from "0"!!!! It is the interval between the achievement of having gained her trust which apparently has gone quite well or maybe not so well (but you're still in the game) and that of the Act. How from the theory will you manage to persuade her to act??? And you think ''Do women wait for something special???? Is there anything that removes or reduces their last inhibitions???" And the answer is yeeeees. There is!! Or better. there are!!!! The women at this time, and unlike men, do not think they will go to bed and if they spend a nice time everything will be ok, and if not it does not matter.... They think that this will be the first time on something that if everything will be ok, it will be repeated! Thus, to avoid making a mistake two things must happen. To trust the man they have chosen to and to be convinced that he is sincere. What are they waiting for in order to say yes???
The first and most basic is that her man does not currently regard sex as his first priority during that time (even though he has his hand around her waist at the time ...) He does not think of it at all... he does not care! He is satisfied by the''incredible''chemistry that exists between them and from the conversation taking place at the time with the most possible understanding as there could be! "FINALLY it has happened to me" is the most powerful of all thoughts that she will make. As for the second??? She wants to have absolute control of the situation. The power that she is the one who decides whether to go home or to continue their night... Not to mention, that if she hears the perfect sentence (from man's side) "under other circumstances I would suggest other things for the continuity of the night, but because with you I'm not interested only in this night but also the nights that will come, I do not care at all. Truth! So whenever you want to leave do not hesitate to tell me! From what I remember you wake up early tomorrow, okay???". This does not only satisfy her, but probably will eventually propose a hotel to go ... proposed by a friend! That is how the first phase of ''I want'' ends. And somewhere in there is when the second phase begins. Care and appreciation are two words with which ... the line-up ''relationship" begins. Women want to show in practice everything you say in words. On the one hand, you should be asking for their opinion and you should hear them (must!) but also to having the foresight to get the sweatshirt in the evening to offer it in the open club when it would get cold. Memory of an elephant. There are things that are not forgotten dude!! What does it suppose to mean that you forgot the date that you first met?????? Her birthday?????? You do not remember the place showed in the photo?????'' (It was that where you went the day that you first met), cut her hair and you did not have noticed??? You see the new dress and behave as she has had it before 3 months????? NO dude! Somewhere here it is the point where Dostoevsky appears! Yes Dostoevsky! Crime and punishment.... crime and punishment, my friend!!!!!! They need time to''do things with their partner as they characteristically claim and ''time to visit any store they like by using the credit card (preferably of their''partner'') something that they skillfully avoid to admit, even .. If you catch them in the dressing room! Words like "champions league, World Cup" or phrases like "when will I win the bet????'' incredibly irritate them and feel that they are insignificant and funny comparing to go out for a drink with her and her friend, Mary that you have to see for so much time....Plans for the future certainly could not be missed from the list of''I want''. It is an integral part of their considerations. On the first day of their relationship begin and imaging themselves in the ''white'' picture.. White becomes their favorite color... The picture of themselves climbing the stairs of a church in the picturesque white wedding dress is on the hits of their ... thoughts. It is their dream! And their dreams need confirmation. That is how they continue to be dreams. Consequently, references by their lover for the future, even though unrelated events, simply boosts their confidence and demonstrates them that ''For having me into his plans after all this time, he definitely feels like I feel" ....
As far as the third point is concerned, the man who married her should be ... A believer in monogamy! And not only an ordinary fan. Noooooooooo! He should be fanatic! Very fanatic! The most loyal fan of the phrase ''I have my wife like a crown in my head!'' On one hand, she wants to be sure that she was not wrong in her judgement to trust a man that she knows so many years and also because with such a wonderful woman what else will he seek for ....???? Stability and confidence. Ok! Nobody can blame her for that. She wants to be sure. Knowing that on one hand, her children will grow up into the perfect environment, with the perfect father that she has chosen for them, and on the other hand, that nothing wrong is going to happen and have to search again for the perfect man ..'' . Because then, the second time, will be at the age of 45, with two kids, 10 kilos heavier and she knows she will not look for the ''ideal man'' but for the ''least worst'' man! Helping at home is also important. To see the man sitting and watching TV by making comments about how ''That devil Messi hangs the ball at his feet!!!'' does not exist! I washed the baby, you will feed it! I will put the dishes in the dishwasher, you will get rid of the trash! Unless you offer to help by yourself. With a style, full of tender you should do the first move to confuse her ''Tell me my love what could I do to help you???'' 50% -50% are the chances ... You never know... You may have fallen in this case that she will say ''Nothing dear!!! Just see the game and in 10 minutes I will have finished''... ok!!! Well. I meant 95-5 For concluding I remembered a standard ''I want'' and I thought, to which category to classify it. But while I was thinking of it, I wanted to classify it everywhere! Perhaps because it is the longest. Perhaps because there is no man who has not have heard it. Or because it will never stop being heard. From our mother until our lawful wife. Whatever.... "HOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE TO SAY IT TO YOU??? WHEN YOU PISS YOU HAVE TO LIFT THE BASIN COVER?????... Or maybe not???? Mercy us... MERCY!!!!
PS: "No matter how many investigations I made, only one query I have never managed to answer. What women really want." Friedrich Nietzsche
What else ?????????????
Everything that women want ...
Everything they have in their mind..
Everything we would like to know.....In a strange way everything women want is inextricably linked with men. Whether it seems irrelevant or not everything starts and ends there. Gentlemen there is no ''everything women want''... There is just ''all that women want ... from men!!!!!!!!''
Do you remember "Nick Marshall''??? It was the name of the role played by Mel Gibson in the film'' What women want.''
Our hero!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It was the first time that I thought to throw a dryer into the bathtub! To be shaken for some seconds, even for a moment to lose my senses, but when I would wake up..
To be in ... in their minds!! To hear their thoughts!!! Everything they want .. Everything they think! And well! You will say. All these women want is always the same??? So in all phases of their life have the same requirements??? The same expectations???Of course not! Naturally! The woman is a chameleon ... She changes according to prevailing conditions and the time of course. The periods of ''I want' 'are basically three! ''Before the relationship", ''during the relationship'' and that of ''marriage.''Each of these has its own characteristics. Its own particular ''expect'' from her husband ... her own ''I want''. Some do actually exist, most of them for accuracy, but some of them do not exist at all but they wait for them, just because their role dictates that! The first period is more tricky. Here it is when the first "I want" begin.
What they want???????????
First of all, to bite their interest!!!A Chinese proverb that you suddenly remembered (meaning that you have memorized 3-4 for each potential case and say the most relevant), a reference to a book you have recently read (never mind if you have not read it. Just having heard the author ...) or even simpler a report to a social problem of the time by showing your opinion (very basic) is enough initially to bite her interest and make her say later to her best friend the famous phrase ''OK I was not gone mad with him, but this man does you a click ''That is just what they want in the beginning". This click. This preoccupation with their minds. If you satisfy that they are ready for the next step ... Target flirt ...It is necessary and should be offered systematically... The generalities of the type ''nice dress!!!'', "Ah! This color in your hair suits you" and all this shit does not touch the heart of a sixty year old woman, 1.50 tall, 112 kilos, divorced with 3 children who had a date with someone she met, before 2 hours, in a chat room! Women want targeting. They want to know that the person they have fallen for, worth it. They want to know that they have something that all others do not. Something we (MEN) do not find every day ... And of course, to be true they must listen to it regularly... To become a routine ... The reminder of it is just a proof of its real existence!Gentleman with courage and not impoliteness when they are on a date. If they realize that the guy they have opposite them is sly like a fox, and takes the right (without being given to) to just spell or murmur the word sex (for whatever reason, even if it is irrelevant.) it is sure that he becomes obsolete (in other words "past", "finished") in a second . The women want ''a gentleman'' for them, a good listener, not to interrupt and have the guts to leave a hint at the right time!!Sex time... Or not??? It is a critical time guys!!!!! It is high time and everything starts from "0"!!!! It is the interval between the achievement of having gained her trust which apparently has gone quite well or maybe not so well (but you're still in the game) and that of the Act. How from the theory will you manage to persuade her to act??? And you think ''Do women wait for something special???? Is there anything that removes or reduces their last inhibitions???" And the answer is yeeeees. There is!! Or better. there are!!!! The women at this time, and unlike men, do not think they will go to bed and if they spend a nice time everything will be ok, and if not it does not matter.... They think that this will be the first time on something that if everything will be ok, it will be repeated! Thus, to avoid making a mistake two things must happen. To trust the man they have chosen to and to be convinced that he is sincere. What are they waiting for in order to say yes???
Two simple observations.
The first and most basic is that her man does not currently regard sex as his first priority during that time (even though he has his hand around her waist at the time ...) He does not think of it at all... he does not care! He is satisfied by the''incredible''chemistry that exists between them and from the conversation taking place at the time with the most possible understanding as there could be! "FINALLY it has happened to me" is the most powerful of all thoughts that she will make. As for the second??? She wants to have absolute control of the situation. The power that she is the one who decides whether to go home or to continue their night... Not to mention, that if she hears the perfect sentence (from man's side) "under other circumstances I would suggest other things for the continuity of the night, but because with you I'm not interested only in this night but also the nights that will come, I do not care at all. Truth! So whenever you want to leave do not hesitate to tell me! From what I remember you wake up early tomorrow, okay???". This does not only satisfy her, but probably will eventually propose a hotel to go ... proposed by a friend! That is how the first phase of ''I want'' ends. And somewhere in there is when the second phase begins. Care and appreciation are two words with which ... the line-up ''relationship" begins. Women want to show in practice everything you say in words. On the one hand, you should be asking for their opinion and you should hear them (must!) but also to having the foresight to get the sweatshirt in the evening to offer it in the open club when it would get cold. Memory of an elephant. There are things that are not forgotten dude!! What does it suppose to mean that you forgot the date that you first met?????? Her birthday?????? You do not remember the place showed in the photo?????'' (It was that where you went the day that you first met), cut her hair and you did not have noticed??? You see the new dress and behave as she has had it before 3 months????? NO dude! Somewhere here it is the point where Dostoevsky appears! Yes Dostoevsky! Crime and punishment.... crime and punishment, my friend!!!!!! They need time to''do things with their partner as they characteristically claim and ''time to visit any store they like by using the credit card (preferably of their''partner'') something that they skillfully avoid to admit, even .. If you catch them in the dressing room! Words like "champions league, World Cup" or phrases like "when will I win the bet????'' incredibly irritate them and feel that they are insignificant and funny comparing to go out for a drink with her and her friend, Mary that you have to see for so much time....Plans for the future certainly could not be missed from the list of''I want''. It is an integral part of their considerations. On the first day of their relationship begin and imaging themselves in the ''white'' picture.. White becomes their favorite color... The picture of themselves climbing the stairs of a church in the picturesque white wedding dress is on the hits of their ... thoughts. It is their dream! And their dreams need confirmation. That is how they continue to be dreams. Consequently, references by their lover for the future, even though unrelated events, simply boosts their confidence and demonstrates them that ''For having me into his plans after all this time, he definitely feels like I feel" ....
As far as the third point is concerned, the man who married her should be ... A believer in monogamy! And not only an ordinary fan. Noooooooooo! He should be fanatic! Very fanatic! The most loyal fan of the phrase ''I have my wife like a crown in my head!'' On one hand, she wants to be sure that she was not wrong in her judgement to trust a man that she knows so many years and also because with such a wonderful woman what else will he seek for ....???? Stability and confidence. Ok! Nobody can blame her for that. She wants to be sure. Knowing that on one hand, her children will grow up into the perfect environment, with the perfect father that she has chosen for them, and on the other hand, that nothing wrong is going to happen and have to search again for the perfect man ..'' . Because then, the second time, will be at the age of 45, with two kids, 10 kilos heavier and she knows she will not look for the ''ideal man'' but for the ''least worst'' man! Helping at home is also important. To see the man sitting and watching TV by making comments about how ''That devil Messi hangs the ball at his feet!!!'' does not exist! I washed the baby, you will feed it! I will put the dishes in the dishwasher, you will get rid of the trash! Unless you offer to help by yourself. With a style, full of tender you should do the first move to confuse her ''Tell me my love what could I do to help you???'' 50% -50% are the chances ... You never know... You may have fallen in this case that she will say ''Nothing dear!!! Just see the game and in 10 minutes I will have finished''... ok!!! Well. I meant 95-5 For concluding I remembered a standard ''I want'' and I thought, to which category to classify it. But while I was thinking of it, I wanted to classify it everywhere! Perhaps because it is the longest. Perhaps because there is no man who has not have heard it. Or because it will never stop being heard. From our mother until our lawful wife. Whatever.... "HOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE TO SAY IT TO YOU??? WHEN YOU PISS YOU HAVE TO LIFT THE BASIN COVER?????... Or maybe not???? Mercy us... MERCY!!!!
PS: "No matter how many investigations I made, only one query I have never managed to answer. What women really want." Friedrich Nietzsche
