I am dreaming of the White Christmas ...

It's Christmas Time Again!!!
AT LAST!
The most beautiful and the most magical day of the year has arrived!
It's Christmas Time!!!
I can not stop smiling! My eyes are filled with beautiful images! In every house I happen to go there is a decorated tree, the house itself, "shouts" that there is celebration! Christmas cakes, Christmas songs sound a sweet and playful music to my ears! Magical images full of sparkle, from the unique glow of Christmas!
Wanting to return a little bit back in time to my childhood, I have countless pictures and feelings to remember during the Christmas season.
Initially, to decorate a Christmas tree was a whole ritual for me. I liked a lot to decorate the Christmas tree, along with all other family members. From the very first ornament that I touched, I felt the glow of Christmas filling me, I felt the sweet warmth to nest in my heart!
Also I will never forget how the house "smelled" in Christmas with all the Christmas sweets that my mother was cooking every such period, sugared buns ...honey cookies ... chocolates ... pancakes ... New Year's cake ... a tradition that naturally I have adopted and will definitely keep the remaining years of my life! There can be no Christmas without the house "smelling" such odours, don't you think???
Also, I will never forget the endless hours of waiting under the Christmas tree for Santa Claus. I wrote my letter that I was a good girl all year and that my mom yelled at me only a few times and that I wanted him to be able to bring me gifts that I had requested and that if he did I thanked him a lot for that. I always imagined him to be with beautiful and expressive green eyes full of love, a red suit, black boots and white beard. In other words, the Santa Claus we all know, that has traveled from our childhood to our dreams and in our hearts!
I was planning for almost all hours to wait for him under the Christmas tree! I told everyone that "this time, yes! I will be able to see him!" But never enough to achieve the end, I had never seen him at all! (Obviously!!) I sat on the couch watching the lights blinking and twinkling until the sleep was taking me away! So every Christmas, when I finally was awake, I found my gifts placed on the tree! Santa Claus was coming to town!!!
I wish Merry and Happy Christmas to all of you full of good health above all, joy and love!
Do not forget the sweetness of our childhood, spontaneity and so much love that we showed to everyone and everything! Even when we were"crashing" ourselves on the floor, we sometimes "whined" a little but then we would always get up even stronger. Bear this in mind!!!
MERRY CHRISTMAS to all and remember ....
Be always with a smile!

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It's a Beautiful Day!!!!!!!

If you had the opportunity to change something today, what would that be ?????
I would change completely the way I think,OF COURSE, what else???????! (I believe that most of you will agree with me on this!)
Am I wrong???
Have you ever wondered how many thoughts we make in our day??? To answer to your question .. THOUSANDS!
Have you also thought that it happens most of these thoughts to be pessimistic???
I have no money, I am bored at work, I have no money left over to buy this dress and BLA! BLA! BLA!
Have you thought that bad thoughts = bad mood = not fulfilled goals???
CHANGE THAT NOW!!!

Why not make beautiful thoughts = beautiful mood = Meeting all our goals???
Let us start from now on and think ONLY in a nice and positive way!
As it is easy for a person to think negatively, it is even easier to think in a positive way! Which path you will choose??????
Even if a negative thought comes and crawls in our minds, we should take care to make it fade with 10 extra positive thoughts!
We must let our minds to wander every day not in problematic thoughts, but in optimistic thoughts, into meaningful thoughts, in our dreams that we want to achieve!
Our mind is great, don’t you think???
The imagination can wander in whichever path! Let’s take care of us and let us choose the beautiful path in our life!
We should celebrate every day of our life, every minute of our existence ... because real life is "divine" gift, life is beautiful and people are special creatures!
Every minute of our life is the discovery of the most priceless treasure!
We, are the diamonds, others “rough”, others not!
All we need is to discover how we could shine and sparkle!!!
This way lies within us! In our positive thinking!
Always guiding your thoughts in the beautiful trail!
That is which will lead you to your happiness!!!

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Can we change men?

Are you kidding me??? Of course not!!

YOU, can change, men NEVER!!

But is it possible to have such a demand???? Are you maybe ... (I say maybe ...) unreasonable????

Men do not change!! Do not live with such an illusion!

The only thing left is, at least, to look after the source of evil ....Is Mrs "Ex" the only person to blame for???????????
Let's analyze it a little more ...
She has spoiled him, where she had to tie him and have him restricted, she loosened more opposite to him, where she had to punish him .... the only thing that she finally did was to show him more her weakness and place you in the position to .... discipline the bull !!!!!!

It is not my purpose to make you feel anxious but.... I do not think that you can manage it!!!! You will always make efforts to discipline him(not the bull!!! YOUR MAN!!!) and you will be the red rag for him....!!!!! If you know what I mean…

Consequently my advice is….

Live your life .... Set your limits ... Show your love, affection, your attention and I must say that ... men lately have learned to appreciate!!

But ... NEVER try to change him!!
Your efforts will be proved fruitless!
Not to mention that you change the roles! He no longer considers you to be his wife, his sexy lover or a "wild cat"!

On the contrary .... He begins to consider you as his aunt, his sister, his mother and in the worst scenario as a .... TO DO LIST!!!!
Only one has the magical gift and can do something about it.... ONLY ONE is the sacred person for him .... the one and only… HIS MOTHER!!!!!
Bear this in mind!!!!!! NEVER FORGET!!!!!

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Inject of confidence NOW!!!!!!!

You cannot be a strong woman.... having succeeded so much in your life .... a celebrity in other words ... and have a lack of confidence!!
Once you have a realistic view of what you're capable of doing and what your limits are.... then do not worry about anything, and whether you can manage everything....
No matter how small or large, your goal is......

Confidence is believing in yourself!!!!!
Never! Never!! Never!! Do not expect others to offer you a compliment to raise your confidence!!!!!
Upload it yourself and hold it there in high level and standards !!!!!
Because you just ..... WORTH IT !!!!!!!
Because you just ... Have it in YOU!!
And whoever undermines you, underestimates you or doubt you KEEP HIM\HER AWAY !!!!! DELETE this person from your life!! It is a confidence thief and tries to underestimate you to boost his confidence !!!!!! KEEP YOURSELF AWAY from such people!! Try to avoid them!!

So .... try every day to radiate your confidence in others, pull it out and let it gleam and then….. everybody will see the sparkles all over you!!!!!

Confidence and accept ourselves exactly as we are, opens its doors to many areas of life (job, love, the emotional domain) and brings balance to our lives!!

However there are several ways to boost your confidence!!

Learn to play your feelings like playing the piano!Whatever you feel you must remember not to behave badly to others especially when you feel angry or pissed off!
Not to have this bitch colleague for example destroy your day at work and then go back home and behave badly at the first person you see in front of you and release your anger that she (THE BITCH COLLEAGUE!!!!) created!!!!!
Do not care about others’ opinion about you!!You should set goals to create one by one your dreams being driven to satisfy and make yourself happy! Do not compare your life with others, and do not let them affect you AT ALL!!!
Focus on your own life, to make it beautiful, to what you want and your dreams!!!!!
Set your limits in order to accomplish your goals without the fear of failure! Believe me..... If you want.... YOU can succeed in everything!!!!!
Once you want something big to happen in your life, start from the smallest step and you will see that step by step, you will finally arrive at your destination!!
Take care of yourself!!!A walk with a loved person, a favorite activity or hobby, you can buy something you love. Things that you love and offer you pleasure are "food" for yourself and you show how much you love and appreciate yourself. Consequently, your confidence is reinforced!!

Do not also forget the importance of keeping fit and your relationship with your body !!!!!Consequently ....... Exercise yourself NOW !!!!! NOT ON MONDAY ......... BUT NOW !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Keeping perfectly fit, results in perfect health and body similar to that of the devil !!!!!
So BE sexy, and FEEL sexy and then glitter this feeling to the people around you !!!!!!!
And after you do that, you will not have the time to get "phone numbers "!!!!!!!!! Understood????

LAST BUT NOT LEAST !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Girls !!!!!!!! Once again I'll be become annoying but ...

CONFIDENCE = red lipstick, bright colors in clothes and accessories (it is must for this summer!!!), high heeled shoes (ABSOLUTELY! !!!!!!!!!) and and an air of a diva !!!!!!
Besides, why should we hide it ??????????? We are much better than the various celebrities that are walking around globally !!!!!!

All that remains for us is to be chased by the paparazzi ........!!!!! Right ???????????????

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You give love a bad name!!!

You say that you love me and that you cannot live without me in your life..... Ok!! I believe it!!So why you reverse it immediately by leaving, with your “buddy”, 3 consecutive weekends???????? (Does your best friend know that in the whole situation he plays the role of the chick???)

In case you did not understand for me it is the same!
Which is the difference between ignoring me for another chick and ignoring me for your buddy???? ... THE same thing!!

What????? Do you think the chick would hurt more than your best friend????If my love, our relationship gets worse and worse every single day (from what I see… that seems suitable for us!!!!) and we are about to separate each other so much that I already see the devil of separation waving the handkerchief in welcoming me to the club of divorced people… ALL mind!!!

Barely ... if you have a chick, you will give me the opportunity to leave (And not come back ever!!!!!..... Think of it!! END forever!!!!)
But if you ignore me for your buddy.... you hold me captive in our relationship that apparently has ended in 4 years.... Sometimes I wonder why we continue....
I think we have discussed the issue..... For a relationship to succeed.... effort is needed by both of us my friend and.... BLA! BLA! BLA!If you dear suddenly wish to live your life..... HELLOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!! You can do it without me! No need to keep me in this relationship....

Of course you could ask me...... Why am I still in this relationship although you do not care????
THAT IS A GOOD QUESTION!!!!!!

I do not know.... I may think that our relationship is in a crisis ... maybe I believe things will change for the better..... Maybe I do not want to "throw away" these 4 years that are full of disappointments, but mostly by pleasant memories.... maybe my feelings are still so strong for you and my love so great that I have not even the strength to leave you....
I know very well that it is not as easy for you either ...
We cannot, however, continue like that ... Some time it is needed to stand up and say your big GOODBYE and get me out of the difficult position to wonder and to analyze your behavior every single day without knowing whether the results obtained are correct!

You do not want to get me out of my misery?????

No matter how hard it is for you, you have to take this decision and give A FINAL END IN THIS RELATIONSHIP!!!!!

You do not know.... Maybe if you do that, you could gain again my appreciation…
You do not know.... If you do that it might be proved good for both of us ...
Maybe that is what we both wanted in the end and we were afraid to admit!!
Let’s give it a try, don’t you think?

But please.... if you respect our relationship and all the beautiful moments that we lived together.... do not underestimate my feelings with all this behaviour…It is humiliating!!!
I do not deserve it and it is not worth for the relationship that we had....

Be the man I once knew and loved even if I hear from your lips that we separate.....

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BROKEN PHONE DEVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well! Sorry but what does it mean "I do not answer the phone because I have work to do"?????????

Are you kidding me????? I am on the verge of hysteria!!!!!
You are trying to tell me that from the 24 hours that a day has, you haven’t got just 2 minutes to dedicate (ONLY! !!!!!!!!!!!) on the phone and speak with me?
So busy you are that I should feel bad because I keep you preoccupied?????
Sorry, ah??? A million apologies! I WILL NOT do it again!


And just wait a moment because I begin to lose my mind..... What does it mean that "I cannot understand the nature of your work because I work in an office "?????????????? What does this mean??? You think that I do not have work to do????? Do you know what it means to work 8 hours in an office?????? Have you got any idea baby?????



You know.... We are not playing solitaire or any other electronics on computer screen, believe me!! (Apart from some days that bubbles and Tetris get fire!!!.... Because of limited workload!!!!)
Daily, we follow specific deadlines that we should not let them expire, we load data until our wrist is in great pain and sometimes we do not leave our chair because of heavy workload!! We are so workaholics you know........!!!!

Do you know how I feel if I am either very happy with something or even very sad, and I feel the longing to get to talk to you, to tell you what I feel because only with the man I love I want to share it and you reject me by making an incurious comment such as “I cannot speak to you right now because I have work to do ...."

Not to mention the 3 times worse that you do when you ask me "How was your day today?" and let me begin to narrate you about my day (you asked for…)or even to talk to you about what I want to tell you, and at the very specific moment when I am so happy that I finally found some time to share with the man of my life, my happiness (or regret). ...... That exact moment of my narrative story is when you will violently interrupt and tell me "Ok! Ok! I leave you now because I have customers to call!!!!"

And I stay to look like a dumb at the phone!! (Not to mention which is the exact expression that fits this case) Speechless and incapable to spell out anything!!

How can I make you understand???? When I want to communicate with you, I want to communicate with you!!!!!!!!!! You're my man! You are required to dedicate a few minutes to hear all the crap I have to tell you!!

I wonder ... You do not feel the same need every day? There are no times that you want to hear my voice at all????? Of course there are..... At times we talked on the phone for your silly incidents you have had with your friends in the past, or the endless stories and discussions about the army and more!
What happened????? We forget them???? We forget them????

So if I want to talk with you for a minute about my nails and for the new manicure I have done, we will talk about my nails!!!!! I do not want to threaten you but ...... you force me to use other major ways to persuade you ...... slowly and menacingly ...... the TSUNAMI of murmur is approaching with a small earthquake from retaliation as an early warning!! Sorry, ah??? A thousand apologies, but.......

CAUTION: For God's sake Girls..... In case some of you have the above behavior..... Let’s stop it for a while!!!!!Not for any other reason but not to find ourselves in a difficult position and have men to take the advantage, ok?????

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And the Oscar goes to ... the Perfect Relationship!!!!

Let's see the nominations!!!!!

 Be yourself!!!

 It is the most important ingredient to achieve in a relationship! Never fake that you’re another person! (ONLY AT SEX!!!). Your partner should love you for who you are! He must love the real you!!!

Refresh your relationship!!!

One of those tips that you should follow for an immediate renewal of the relationship is first of all, from time to time choose to do something different when going out, eg To go to a different restaurant,  to go for a drink, only you and him, or at a club, without your friends! Start selecting different events to attend, such as grand openings or galas!!!

Even if you live together, you should give rendez-vous to meet each other, outside your house! Actually.... This will return your thoughts at the beginning of your relationship!

 Also, what would be so ideal is to cook for him special meals and to eat by the light of candles! So romantic!!!!!!

 Last but not least, girls.... (I will say it again and AGAIN ....) It is very important to purchase new and sexy lingerie at regular intervals (preferably transparent or lacy!) by also combining high heeled shoes, by capturing his eyes with yours and having your imagination as a weapon!

 You understand my point? Do you have any questions???

 

 Pay attention to detail!!!

 Sometimes we get carried away by our emotions and depending on the outcome of our day (especially at work), when we see our boyfriend in front of us we start “bombarding” him with meaningless things, from how bitch was our colleague today ,up to what dress and lipstick we chose to take at the wedding where we'll go at Saturday! Torrent of words and sentences without refund! Stop NOW!

Today that you will see him after returning from work or when you will meet tonight, become interested ONLY for him! Ask how his day was, if there was anything special that caught his interest, if he was found in the middle of any kind of funny situations, and why not to offer him a relaxing massage!!!

 You can not imagine how much he will appreciate it! I can assure you about that!

 You do not know.... Along the way.... he might want to reward you.... The "package" massage may be proved to include many other extra and more “spicy” benefits for you to taste...

 

 Compliments!!!

 The compliments are playing crucial role in the course of your relationship! Especially when made after several years of relationship!

By  making a compliment you show to the other how much you admire him, that you are in love, how much you like something he wears, or his opinion, the way he behaves, to find that your man is so sexy and do not skip ever to say it to him!

A compliment is a reward and if your compliments become a little more "spicy "..... If you know what I mean.... your relationship will be forever a FIRE!

 Do not neglect yourself EVER!!!

 It will be a little shock for you now but I will tell it to you. Do not even think about to be ready to have sex with him, an already prepared situation and let him explore your body and suddenly feel the "grass" on your feet, or even looking at your wonderful eyes and cannot distinguish them from the “bushes” in your eyebrows sprouting here and there (NO! NO! NO!!!!), not to mention anything further.... I do not want to expose us more!!!!!

NOTHING! NO SECOND THOUGHT the issue of a SPA should be first priority of every woman! That is where we should give all our money, a total care for our body, and our time dedicated to fitness because that is what women do and should be..... DELICATE!!

 As for the boys.... if you laugh while reading these lines.... learn that more than 3 days beard (meaning… just before becoming a priest) we do not like it AT ALL!!

Yes! We do not like it because you"pinch" us and our skin is sensitive, filled with red spots and we also think that by Monday you will go to any monastery to become a monk!

 We will soon give you a shaver as a gift.... whether there is a celebration or not by our good heart guys!!!!!

 

 Be honest!!!

 Never! But.... Never!! But ... Never! Do not stop being honest! All kinds of relationships build on trust!

Consequently, do not build your castle my friend, and then destroy it at once with a lie!

 Even if it is of minor significance or seems as innocent.... it remains a lie!

 

 Keep your life as it was!!!

 Helooooooooo!!!! Being with someone does not mean that you have to forget your best girlfriends, your nights out together, and the spa evenings you did together or the endless shopping therapy, or even the Tuesdays that your girlfriend would come that you spent them by watching a favorite movie or by talking, and talking, and talking for hours by drinking your favorite wine!!!

 Think that he will not also want to lose the gathering with his friends to watch football on TV, or to dedicate a coffee to them (without you!!!!) sometime in a weekend!

 Do not forget the habits that satisfied you in the past! Only then there will be balance in your relationship, not only that but also with the people around you, but mostly inside yourself !!!...

Do not try in any way to change the other person!

Each person is unique, is special! You must accept that the person near you has its advantages, but also drawbacks! NOBODY IS PERFECT!

I know ... I know ... There are times when you feel like his mother ... or that he does not understand you ... For that that he does not hear you, you know what? Just ignore it, even if you are right! Men usually want time to process some facts and take their own decisions! Have a little patience!

 Besides, when you fell in love with him, in everything you loved in him, includes also that you always say black and white and disagreed with each other! Now why you bother???? Do you want a man that agrees in everything you say and does not have his own opinion and beliefs????

 Girls ... Opposites attract! You must know that by heart!!!

 

 Tenderness in all its glory!

 The "macho" they may seem, no matter how tough they show to you ... always at the end of the day, they will desire, your touch, your kiss, your smile, your hug!

 You have the magic touch and you can really get a man to heaven!

As for us boys ... no matter how much complicated we may seem, we are really sooooo simple (even myself is ready to believe it!!!!!) to manipulate us!

 NO! I will not give you TIPS for today!!

 COMING SOON!!!!.....

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